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Even The People Who Betray You Are Part Of The Plan

Good Morning My Loves,


Isaiah 66:9 says, “I will not cause pain without allowing something new to be born, says the Lord.” Even the people who betray you are part of the plan. When you go through the unspeakable you will find out who your true friends are. You will know who God is and learn who you truly are. In this time, thank God for the trials and the people who left you. There comes a time, even in silence, betrayal is heard so clear. Everybody can’t go with you. No matter what season you find yourself in, the one constant thing is your relationship with God. His love never changes.


Life has taught me that you can’t control someone’s loyalty. No matter how good you are to them, doesn’t mean they’ll value you the same. Sometimes the people you love the most, turn out to be the people you can trust the least. Some people aren’t loyal to you…they are loyal to their need of you. Once their needs change, so does their loyalty. When someone shows you who they are, believe them. Sometimes you must hurt in order to know, fall in order to grow, lose in order to gain, because most of life’s greatest lessons are learned through pain.


Forget what hurt you, but never forget what it taught you. God is the only reason why, even in pain I smile; in confusion I understand; in betrayal I trust Him; and in fear I continue to fight. Show respect, even to people who don’t deserve it. Not as a reflection of their character, but as a reflection of yours. Those who don’t know the value of loyalty can never appreciate the cost of betrayal. Be good to those who are good to you.


Be blessed abundantly and a blessing to others. I know you can do this because…GREAT IS IN YOU.