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When Was The Last Time You, Loved You

Great Morning My Loves,


Happy Sunday! Remember the Sabbath Day to keep it Holy. Get up and take your families to church, they need it and deserve it. Today give yourself a hug….I’m sure you need it. Your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship you have. Fall in love with yourself. Knowing how to love yourself is an important source of happiness. However, we are so busy trying to find happiness and love from others and things, that we forget┬áthe essence of true love and happiness needs to start from within. Self-Love is complete forgiveness, acceptance and respect for who you are deep down…all your beautiful and unsightly parts included. Oh my darling, it’s true beautiful things have dents and scars too.


My Loves, you can’t pour from an empty cup. You, yourself, as anybody in the entire universe deserve your love and affection. Make yourself a priority. Learn to be alone, without being lonely. Learn to admire your beauty, without finding fault in others. Learn to love yourself without the love of others. If I asked you to name all the things you love, how long would it take for you to name yourself? When there is no enemy within that you fight with, the enemies outside cannot hurt you. Be there for others but never leave yourself behind. You are a priority, not an option.


When you know your worth no-one can lower your appraised value. Be your own person, but collectively, a force to be reckoned with. ┬áLet today be the day that you fall in love with yourself all over again. To fall in love with yourself is the first key to happiness and you deserve it. Be abundantly blessed with love all over today. Be a blessing to others and spread love. I know you can do this because…..Great Love Is In You!.


Don’t Be A Victim, Claim The Victory

Good Morning My Loves,


Saving Grace Sunday to you all. Today is going to be marvelous, I speak, believe it and receive it. Today is the day that you retire your position as being the victim. Dr. Steve Maraboli said it best, “Stop validating your victim mentality. Shake off your self-defeating drama and embrace your innate ability to recover and achieve.” It’s time to forgive yourself, forgive whomever hurt you, let go of the past hurts and move on. The one person you are with forever is yourself, that relationship is eternal. Until you love yourself, truly love yourself, you are not capable to love anyone else because you can’t give what you don’t have….YOURSELF.


As a victim of domestic violence, I had to tell myself I will not be the victim. No one deserves to be hurt by a spouse, significant other or friend. Let me tell you this and make sure you hear me clearly…..if they do it once, they will do it again. Do not allow yourself to be someone else’s place to release their anger. Some people will never change and you have to accept that and change yourself. Everyday tell yourself, “I am not what happened to me, I am what I chose to become.” 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 says, ” Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trust, always hopes, always perseveres….LOVE never fails.” If you ever wonder what love should be or what kind of love you deserve refer to the Bible, God defined it perfectly.


Even in a storm something beautiful can happen when you feel your world is falling apart. A humility, a nobility, a higher purpose emerges at just the point when our knees hit the floor. You can choose to let whatever hurt you have faced define or confine you, or you can gather your courage move on and leave it behind you. Let today be the day you learn the grace of letting go, the gift of good-bye and the power of moving on. Be abundantly blessed my Loves and a blessing to others. Be kind, you never know what battle someone is fighting. I know you can do this because…..GREAT IS IN YOU!